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"Goose egg on this planet can compare with a adult female's dear—it is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. Pure. If yous are her homo, she will walk on water and through a mountain for you, too, no matter how you've acted out, no matter what crazy matter you've washed, no matter the time or demand. If yous are her man, she volition talk to you lot until in that location only aren't whatsoever more words left to say, encourage you when you're at rock bottom and recollect there but isn't any way out, concord you in her arms when you're ill, and laugh with you when you're upwardly. And if you're her homo and that woman loves you—I mean really loves you lot?—she will smoothen you upwards when you're dusty, encourage you when you're downwardly, defend y'all even when she's not and so sure you were right, and hang on your every give-and-take, even when you're non saying anything worth listening to. And no affair what you practise, no matter how many times her friends say you're no good, no matter how many times yous slam the door on the relationship, she will give y'all her very best and so some, and keep correct on trying to win over your heart, even when yous human action similar everything she'due south washed to convince you she's The Ane just isn't adept enough.
That'south a woman'due south dearest—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. "
― Act Like a Lady, Think Similar a Man: What Men Really Recall Most Beloved, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
That'south a woman'due south dearest—it stands the test of time, logic, and all circumstance. "
― Act Like a Lady, Think Similar a Man: What Men Really Recall Most Beloved, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"All I'm telling you to exercise is to be smart nigh it. Know that if this homo isn't looking for a serious human relationship, you're not going to alter his mind just because you two are going on dates and beingness intimate. You could exist the most perfect woman on the Lord's green earth-you lot're capable of interesting conversation, you cook a hateful breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, yous're independent (which ways, to him, that you lot're non going to exist in his pockets)-simply if he's not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat yous like sports fish."
― Act Like a Lady, Retrieve Similar a Man: What Men Really Think Nearly Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
― Act Like a Lady, Retrieve Similar a Man: What Men Really Think Nearly Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"I'm sure that if adult female laid out the rules- requirements- early on, and permit her intended know that he could either rise up to those requirements, or just move on. A directive like that signals to a homo that you lot are non a plaything-someone to be used and discarded. It tells him that what you have- your benefits- are special, and that you need time to get to know him and his ways to decide if he DESERVES them.
The human being who is willing to put in the fourth dimension and run into the requirments is the ane you desire to stick around, because tthat guy is making a witting decision that he, too, has no interest in playing games and volition do what it takes to not just stay on the job, but also get promoted and be the proud beneficiary of your benefits. And yous, in the meantime, win the ultimate prize of maintaing your dignity and self-esteem, and earning the respect of the man who recognized that you lot were worth the wait."
― Deed Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think Nigh Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
The human being who is willing to put in the fourth dimension and run into the requirments is the ane you desire to stick around, because tthat guy is making a witting decision that he, too, has no interest in playing games and volition do what it takes to not just stay on the job, but also get promoted and be the proud beneficiary of your benefits. And yous, in the meantime, win the ultimate prize of maintaing your dignity and self-esteem, and earning the respect of the man who recognized that you lot were worth the wait."
― Deed Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think Nigh Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"Just think what drives a man; real men do what they have to exercise to make sure their people are taken care of, clothed, housed, and reasonably sastisfied, and if they're doing anything less than that, they're non men."
― Human activity Like a Lady, Think Similar a Human being: What Men Really Recollect About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
― Human activity Like a Lady, Think Similar a Human being: What Men Really Recollect About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"Your objective is to avoid being on a string.
The start step, I retrieve, is to get over the fear of losing a man by against him. Just stop being afraid, already. The most successful people in this world recognize that taking chances to get what they desire is much more productive than sitting around being besides scared to take a shot. The same philosophy tin exist applied to dating: if putting your requirements on the table means y'all risk him walking away, information technology's a risk y'all have to accept. Because that fear can trip y'all up every time; all as well many of y'all allow the guy go away with disrespecting y'all, putting in minimal effort and holding on to the commitment to you considering you're agape he's going to walk away and you'll be lonely again. And we men? Nosotros recognize this and play on it, big time."
― Act Like a Lady, Call up Like a Man: What Men Really Retrieve About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
The start step, I retrieve, is to get over the fear of losing a man by against him. Just stop being afraid, already. The most successful people in this world recognize that taking chances to get what they desire is much more productive than sitting around being besides scared to take a shot. The same philosophy tin exist applied to dating: if putting your requirements on the table means y'all risk him walking away, information technology's a risk y'all have to accept. Because that fear can trip y'all up every time; all as well many of y'all allow the guy go away with disrespecting y'all, putting in minimal effort and holding on to the commitment to you considering you're agape he's going to walk away and you'll be lonely again. And we men? Nosotros recognize this and play on it, big time."
― Act Like a Lady, Call up Like a Man: What Men Really Retrieve About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"I'm hither to tell y'all, though, ladies that the term "gold digger" is ane of the traps we men set to go on y'all off our money trail; nosotros created that term for you so that we tin can have all our money and still get everything we desire from yous without you lot request for or expecting this very basic, instincual responsibility that men all over the earth are obligated to assume and encompass. ... KNOW THIS: It is your right to expect that a homo will pay for your dinner, your movie ticket, your club entry fee, or whatever else he has to pay for in exhange for your time."
― Deed Similar a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think Well-nigh Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
― Deed Similar a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think Well-nigh Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"Women tin can get over information technology once more and again in their minds, finding all kinds of deficiencies in themselves-"I didn't do this right," "I wasn't expert enough," "I didn't love him the manner I should," "she came in hither and outperformed me"-merely the fact still remeinas that he didn't take whatsoever business organization cheating. So women need to realease themselves from the blame of a cheating homo's actions-but practice that for yourselves. Because holding on to that baggage can be paralyzing; it tin can cripple yous and proceed you from performing in your next run into. You only cannot drive forward if you're focused on what'south happening in the rearview mirror."
― Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
― Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"All you lot take to do is speak up.
Tell him straight up: "I need you hither to protect and provide for us, to give the states security in our lives, to help raise these children, to ready an instance for this boy, who needs to run across what real men practice, and for this girl, who needs to know what a real man is and then she tin discover i of her own someday. I need you to be the head of this family unit."
Lay it out like this, and your requirements will trump his mother's every time."
― Human activity Like a Lady, Call up Like a Homo: What Men Really Think Nearly Beloved, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
Tell him straight up: "I need you hither to protect and provide for us, to give the states security in our lives, to help raise these children, to ready an instance for this boy, who needs to run across what real men practice, and for this girl, who needs to know what a real man is and then she tin discover i of her own someday. I need you to be the head of this family unit."
Lay it out like this, and your requirements will trump his mother's every time."
― Human activity Like a Lady, Call up Like a Homo: What Men Really Think Nearly Beloved, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"Newsflash: it'south non the guy who determines whether you're a sports fisher or a keeper-information technology's you. (Don't detest the player, detest the game.) When a man approaches y'all y'all're the one with full control over the situation-whether he can talk to y'all, purchase yous a drink, dance with you, get your number, accept you abode, see yous again, all of that. Nosotros certainly want these things from yous; that'south why we talked to you in the starting time place. But information technology's you who decides if you're going to give u.s. whatever of the things we desire, and how, exactly, we're going to get them. Where you lot stand in our eyes is dictated by YOUR command over the situation. Every word y'all say, every move you make, every bespeak you give to a man will help him determine whether he should endeavour to play you, exist straight with you, or move on to the next adult female to do a little more than sport fishing."
― Act Like a Lady, Remember Like a Man: What Men Really Think Nigh Honey, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
― Act Like a Lady, Remember Like a Man: What Men Really Think Nigh Honey, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"I realized right and then and there, in that hallway, that I wanted no other... I became the human being she needed me to be considering she had sense plenty to accept requirements-standards that she needed in her relationship in lodge to brand the human relationship work for her.
She knew she wanted a monogamous relationship-a partnership with a human who wanted to be a defended husband and father. She also knew this human had to exist true-blue, love God, and be willing to exercise what information technology took to keep this family together. On a smaller scale she also fabricated information technology clear that she expected to be treated similar a lady at every turn-I'm talking opening auto doors for her, pulling out her seat when she'south ready to sit down at the table, coming correct on anniversary, Mother's Solar day, and altogether gifts, keeping the foul talk to a minimum. These requirements are important to her considering they lay out a virtual map of what I demand to do to make sure she gets what she needs and wants. Afterward all, information technology's universal knowledge that when mama is happy, everybody is happy. And it is my sole mission in life to make certain Marjorie is happy."
― Act Like a Lady, Recollect Like a Human being: What Men Really Think Nearly Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
She knew she wanted a monogamous relationship-a partnership with a human who wanted to be a defended husband and father. She also knew this human had to exist true-blue, love God, and be willing to exercise what information technology took to keep this family together. On a smaller scale she also fabricated information technology clear that she expected to be treated similar a lady at every turn-I'm talking opening auto doors for her, pulling out her seat when she'south ready to sit down at the table, coming correct on anniversary, Mother's Solar day, and altogether gifts, keeping the foul talk to a minimum. These requirements are important to her considering they lay out a virtual map of what I demand to do to make sure she gets what she needs and wants. Afterward all, information technology's universal knowledge that when mama is happy, everybody is happy. And it is my sole mission in life to make certain Marjorie is happy."
― Act Like a Lady, Recollect Like a Human being: What Men Really Think Nearly Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"A man fishes for two reasons: he's either sport angling or fishing to eat, which means he's either going to endeavor to take hold of the biggest fish he can, have a flick of information technology, admire information technology with his buddies and toss information technology dorsum to sea, or he's going to have that fish on domicile, scale information technology, fillet it, toss it in some cornmeal, fry it up, and put it on his plate. This, I think, is a great illustration for how men seek out women."
― Human action Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think Most Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
― Human action Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think Most Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"Nosotros men are very elementary people: if nosotros like what we see, we're coming over there. If we don't want anything from yous, we're non coming over there. Period. Please highlight this role correct here so y'all can always remind yourself the next fourth dimension a man steps to you lot: a human always wants something. Ever. And when it comes to women, that plan is e'er to find out ii things: (ane) if you're willing to slumber with him, and (2) if yous are, how much it volition cost to get you to sleep with him."
― Act Similar a Lady, Think Similar a Human: What Men Really Call up Virtually Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Delivery
― Act Similar a Lady, Think Similar a Human: What Men Really Call up Virtually Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Delivery
"To us, your power comes from ane simple thing: you're a woman, and we men will do
annihilation humanly possible to impress y'all and then that, ultimately, we can be with you. You're the driving forcefulness behind why we wake up every twenty-four hours. Men go out and get jobs and hustle to brand
coin considering of women. We drive fancy cars because of women. We wearing apparel nice, put on cologne, become haircuts and attempt to look all shiny and new for you. We exercise all of this considering the more than our game is stepped upwards, the more of you nosotros get. You're the ultimate prize to us."
― Act Similar a Lady, Think Similar a Human: What Men Really Think Nigh Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
annihilation humanly possible to impress y'all and then that, ultimately, we can be with you. You're the driving forcefulness behind why we wake up every twenty-four hours. Men go out and get jobs and hustle to brand
coin considering of women. We drive fancy cars because of women. We wearing apparel nice, put on cologne, become haircuts and attempt to look all shiny and new for you. We exercise all of this considering the more than our game is stepped upwards, the more of you nosotros get. You're the ultimate prize to us."
― Act Similar a Lady, Think Similar a Human: What Men Really Think Nigh Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"I know that you and your girls have been told for years on end that you simply don't decline any opportunities when a human being walks your way—he could be The One. Just I'yard here to tell you that this philosophy is just plain dumb. Women are smart—you all tin tell when your friends are lying, you know when your kids are upward to no adept, co-workers tin't get annihilation past you at
the task. You're quick to allow each ane of them know that you're not stupid, that you encounter them coming a mile abroad, and you lot're not going to let them play that game with you lot. But when it comes to your relationships with the opposite sex, all of that goes out the window; you lot relinquish your ability and lose all control over the situation—cede information technology to any sometime man who looks at you twice. Simply considering he happened to look at you twice."
― Act Like a Lady, Recall Like a Man: What Men Really Recall About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
the task. You're quick to allow each ane of them know that you're not stupid, that you encounter them coming a mile abroad, and you lot're not going to let them play that game with you lot. But when it comes to your relationships with the opposite sex, all of that goes out the window; you lot relinquish your ability and lose all control over the situation—cede information technology to any sometime man who looks at you twice. Simply considering he happened to look at you twice."
― Act Like a Lady, Recall Like a Man: What Men Really Recall About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment
"If you are her man, she will talk to y'all until there just
aren't any more words left to say, encourage yous when yous're
at stone bottom and call up in that location simply isn't whatsoever manner out, hold y'all
in her arms when you're sick, and laugh with you lot when you lot're
up. And if you're her human and that adult female loves y'all—I mean
really loves you?—she volition smoothen you up when yous're dusty,
encourage you when you're down, defend you even when she's
not so sure you were right, and hang on your every give-and-take, even
when you're not saying annihilation worth listening to."
― Human action Like a Lady, Think Similar a Man: What Men Actually Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Delivery
aren't any more words left to say, encourage yous when yous're
at stone bottom and call up in that location simply isn't whatsoever manner out, hold y'all
in her arms when you're sick, and laugh with you lot when you lot're
up. And if you're her human and that adult female loves y'all—I mean
really loves you?—she volition smoothen you up when yous're dusty,
encourage you when you're down, defend you even when she's
not so sure you were right, and hang on your every give-and-take, even
when you're not saying annihilation worth listening to."
― Human action Like a Lady, Think Similar a Man: What Men Actually Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Delivery
"You control what you can control—your epitome, the way you conduct yourself, the manner you permit men talk to and approach you—and use that to go the relationship you desire."
― Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Human
― Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Human
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